…having it all.

You can have it all, but don’t expect to have it all at once. If you are a parent raising small children and working a full-time job there is very little time left for school unless you have a very good support system. Your time is your most valuable asset. Your children are only small for a short period of time so if at all possible try not to cut into time spent with them. If you are in a relationship, married or otherwise, your partner needs face time too. If you have pets, Fluffy and Fido need attention so factor that time in first. Pace yourself when it comes to balancing out your life. When you are making the decision to reinvent yourself, sit down and think about what you are really willing to sacrifice. Some things can never be regained so be careful. On the flip side, do not be so giving that you don’t give yourself some me time. If you find that you are starting to resent folks when doing favors it might be time for a little me time. The goal here is to find something that you are passionate about and do it. Now, let me just warn you parents out there about the effects of finding your passion. For example, if you are a reader, have you noticed that just when you sit down and start really enjoying the book, your kid shows up and wants to have that meaningful talk. As a matter of fact, I discovered that it is a good way to get your children to talk to you. Try it sometime! The next time that you want to talk to your child(ren), sit down on the couch with your favorite book and act like you are really enjoying yourself. Within minutes they will suddenly appear with a situation that needs your immediate attention. LOL, all you single folks take notes, you might need this advice one day. If you don’t believe me, try it and let me know how it works for you.